Is needing selfish or selfless?

Are we are afraid to say with frank earnestness, honesty and humility that our actions are selfish? They are filled with our needs of expression, acceptance, love, reassurance, respect, contribution and any of the other unnamed needs we have. Each act is us as...

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On Waking

I’m waking up. I’m remembering how much of a good girl I was. Good girls don’t tell tall tales. Good girls keep their secrets. Good girls deal with their shame and pain in silence. Good girls feel are less than when others learn about it. Goo...

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Selflessly authentic

On the quest to authentically love, respect and support myself, the first question I ask, how do I know I’m being authentic? Is there someone outside of me who verifies this for me? Is there some one else who creates the rules for my authenticity? No, th...

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